Hello~~ 😸, today I want to share something different. Sometimes we don't need more information, more strategy, more planning. Sometimes we just need to be reminded not to give up; that we have what it takes, if not now then we can develop it; and a little motivation to give us that jump-start to break us out of the allures of life that pull us away from our dreams and goals.
The Challenge of Motivation
How can I, a random person on the internet, say something to motivate you to achieve your goals? It seems I've set a big ask for myself.
I don't know you; I don't know your goals. I don't know your situation, what health issues or life problems you're dealing with. All I can do is offer compassion and say that there is love in this world for you.
The Reality of Our Journey
You may fail. You may lose motivation, you may feel burn-out at times, you may get something only to realize it isn't what you want. You may feel like these problems are only your own, but you're not alone. You can rest but remember that giving up isn't an option.
Rest is not giving up. Rest is preparation. Even the strongest trees have seasons of dormancy before their greatest growth spurts.
Yes, you can also pretend. Pretend that everything is alright. Pretend to be someone else, someone better. Someone who has the talents and skills you admire, the power you desire, the appearance you want, or maybe even the popularity you wish for. All the things you are currently lacking.
But guess what, we are all unique, gifted and special. We are well-equipped with skills and resources that enable us to push forward. Everything we have is in contrast with our God-given assignments, our purpose.
The Power of Authenticity
So, instead of wasting your time pretending to be someone else, focus on discovering your gifts and continue improving your talents and skills. Remember that as long as you live, there's always something more to discover within you.
You have what it takes to achieve all that your heart desires in this life, within reason. I know that you can develop the necessary skills and traits to make the changes you want, even if those changes are only for yourself.
Stop comparing your beginning to someone else's middle. Your journey is uniquely yours, and every expert was once a beginner.
Do you not deserve happiness? Have you made mistakes in the past? That's fine, we all do. We all messed up. The fact that you consider it a blunder is the very catalyst that allows for change. If you never thought it was a mistake, there would be nothing to fix. But you can fix it. You can make drastic changes to your life both physically and mentally.
The Foundation of Everything
Family, love, friends, money, exploration, invention, all these things don't mean anything if you are in a bad place mentally. I need you to feel good about yourself. Not to say you will be perfect, but to say that life is short, and you are trying your best.
And what if you're not? Well, at this very moment you can try. Try a little more than usual. Push a little harder. Make that extra effort. Effort to progress forward. Effort to change your life.
Nobody will do it for you, and if they did you wouldn't learn. You'd be in a different environment or situation but still, you would feel the same. Once you get the inner self fixed, you can begin to fix the outer side of yourself. Of course, there's a lot of environmental factors that can influence you, but that may be outside of yourself. How you react and how you are feeling is internally controlled.
The Truth About Your Potential
You can do it. You have what it takes. If not now, soon. You can get those things. The time and effort you spend doubting, if focused on things that can be improved, would lead to results that would astound you. You will never remove the doubt but give yourself a little more credit. Even if it's temporary. Even if it's for the next fifteen minutes. Just be proud of yourself even though you are incomplete. Even though you have more you want to accomplish. Love yourself, enjoy the process, and keep progressing.
Embrace who you really are. And work constantly to give yourself reasons to love yourself. And be accepting when you fall short of your ideals… but never forget that you are loved. That you are capable, unique, and special. A masterpiece of God.
The Micro-Moments That Matter
The 15-Minute Rule
When everything feels overwhelming, commit to just 15 minutes. 15 minutes of focused effort on something that matters to you. You'd be surprised how much can happen in 15 minutes when you're fully present.
The Progress Principle
Track your progress, not your perfection. Every small step forward is a victory worth celebrating. Did you make your bed? Victory. Did you read one page? Victory. Did you take one step toward your goal? Victory.
The Permission Slip
Give yourself permission to:
- Start imperfectly
- Make mistakes
- Take breaks
- Ask for help
- Change your mind
- Celebrate small wins
Your Action Plan
Today
- Choose one small thing you can do for yourself
- Do it without judgment
- Acknowledge that you did it
This Week
- Identify one area where you want to grow
- Take one small step in that direction
- Celebrate the effort, not just the outcome
This Month
- Reflect on what you've learned about yourself
- Adjust your approach based on what's working
- Share your progress with someone who supports you
The Ripple Effect
Remember, when you work on yourself, you're not just helping yourself. You're creating a ripple effect that touches everyone around you. Your growth, your courage, your authenticity—these things inspire others to believe in their own potential.
Small, consistent actions compound over time. What seems insignificant today becomes extraordinary over months and years. Trust the process.
A Final Reminder
You are not broken. You are not behind. You are not less than. You are exactly where you need to be to take the next step forward. And that next step? You have everything you need to take it.
The question isn't whether you have what it takes—you do. The question is whether you're ready to believe it and act on it.
Your future self is counting on you to start today.
Questions for Reflection
- What's one small thing you can do today that your future self will thank you for?
- What would you tell a friend who was feeling the way you feel right now?
- What's one skill or quality you'd like to develop, and what's the smallest step you can take toward it?
- What are you most proud of about yourself, even if it seems small?
Keep Going
The path forward isn't always clear, and that's okay. The path becomes clear as you walk it. Trust yourself. Trust the process. Trust that you have what it takes.
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🐺 You've got this. You always have.
Remember: This is not about being perfect. This is about being present, being persistent, and being kind to yourself along the way.